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A shower of blessings for the Negis

27 Mar

We attended their wedding in June last year and now we attended a baby shower for them.

Emcees for the party.

Our friends Shyam and Christy are now expecting a baby boy. Their friends from the Connect Ministry (GCF’s ministry to workers in the BPO industry) organized a shower for them yesterday to bless the new family with love, prayers, and gifts.

There was a game for you to guess what gender will Shyam and Christy’s baby be.

It was just a simple party. Aside from the usual stuff (i.e., a couple of games and some snacks), Shyam and Christy revealed the gender of their baby through a gender reveal announcement. I’m aware of and familiar with the current trend on gender reveals and how it’s becoming a normal part of baby showers but it was my first time to attend one where there was an actual gender reveal announcement so I was excited about it. They’re having a baby boy, by the way.

Showers of gifts.

Of course, the party would not be a shower without the “ceremonial” gift-opening which was more or less the highlight of the event. We also showered the new family, of course, with prayers which Eugene led. We especially prayed for a safe and healthy pregnancy for Christy and the baby as Christy is experiencing some difficulty with her pregnancy.

Caption to the video above: I clicked on the record button too late to capture the start of the gender reveal announcement.

But what I find to really be the highlight and most meaningful during the celebration was when Christy shared the story behind the name they will give to their baby boy due in May. Christy shared that they will name their child Noah because Noah (in the Bible) was described as a “righteous man, blameless among the people in his time, and he walked faithfully with God” (Genesis 6:9). This is inspite of “how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth” (Genesis 6:5) and how “the earth was corrupt in God’s sight and was full of violence” (Genesis 6:11). “But Noah found favor in the eyes of the Lord” (Genesis 6:8). He was chosen by God to preserve the human race and eventually to save men through Jesus Christ. (Read the story of Noah here).

Showers of prayers and blessings.

And so they are blessing their child to be named Noah because when the time comes (when earth will be more wicked and corrupt than now), Shyam and Christy want their child to be like Noah, a “righteous” and blameless man who will be used by God to save people. Wow! That is a very powerful blessing to your unborn child.

Shyam and Christy with their Connect family.

(And that is also why the theme of the shower is Noah’s Ark).

Shyam and Christy, we pray for God’s mercy and grace to be upon you and Baby Noah. May God’s favor be indeed upon him and may he indeed grow up to be a righteous and blameless man in the sight of the Lord.

Eugene and I with the soon-to-be-new-parents.

We are rejoicing with you as you enter this new chapter in your life. We will also be here for you to walk with you in your parenting journey.

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A baby shower for Andrei Nigel

15 Jan

​We threw a baby shower for our fellow pastor’s wife, Nikki, wife of Pastor Gelo Tuanqui, yesterday. We held the party at Pastor Manny and Ate Tintin Enriquez’s house in Quezon City.

It was just a short and simple party where we played a couple of games, had fellowship over food (of course), and, where we gave the soon-to-be second-time mom words of encouragement for the upcoming birth of their baby boy. Nikki is due very soon now.

The soon-to-be second time mom, Nikki, with Ate Betty, wife of Pastor Sam Rendal. Photo by Bettylyn Rendal.

What I find the most meaningful part during the shower was the short ‘devo’ given by Ate Ruth Dizon (thank you, Ate Ruth, by the way). She shared her experience when she became a first-time mom in her early 20s, how she was so clueless how to care for a newborn, that she went through PPD, and that she was fearful of so many things, one of which was the desire to be in control of her kids (two boys). But as she grew as a mother, she learned to release them to the Lord in faith. She said that the fears in raising kids will always be present, but we can find comfort because God will care for them even in the tiniest detail of their life. He is in control. I like the hashtag Ate Ruth used to caption our group picture she posted in Facebook: #ParentingInFaithNotFear. Indeed, raising a child in this fallen world, it is very comforting to know there is a God we can cast our fears to and put our faith on.

Those who were veteran parents among us also shared some of their experiences of going through a difficult and painful time with their children but those trying times were, eventually, used by God for His purpose.

Ate Ruth also shared ‘A Parent’s Prayer‘ by Pastor Arnel Tan which was taken from his book ‘The Language of Grace: Meditations on Prayer.’ I quote below…

A Parent’s Prayer

Abba,

It is so comforting to know that You’re a parent, too. The moment You gave us our kids, You gave us a rare chance to know Your heart a bit more. The responsibility of rearing our children is immense; and our task to guide them through life is even greater.

We come to You for mercy over our tendency to rule without relating. We ask You for grace so we could learn how to respect, and gradually release our children to become the persons You designed them to be.

As parents, make us willing learners. Make us alert. Help us to not repeat the abuses in our past. Make us humble to admit the mistakes of the present. Make us confident in Your sovereignty as we face the unknown realities of what’s ahead.

Grant us children who will do their best for Your glory. Don’t exempt them from pain, but equip them with faith so they may learn to depend on You. In the busyness of our lives and in the unbelievable demands of the urgent, teach us to be still and know that You are God. Give us the will and the wisdom to be truly there for them in times of crises, and of celebrations.

Lord, when the time comes to give them up to marriage to the spouse they choose to love, help us to delight in releasing them so they can soar high on their own. And in the twilight of our parenting years, fill our memory banks with pleasant thoughts, with contagious laughter, and with hearts grateful for the privilege of becoming parents. You allowed us to see a glimpse of Your heart when we became parents ourselves.

In the name of Your son, we humbly pray, Amen.

Pastor Gelo, Nikki’s husband, prayed for her, to cap the night off.

Group picture. GCF pastors’ wives showering Nikki with words of encouragement, prayers, and gifts for their soon-to-be-born Baby Boy. He will be named Andrei Nigel. What a very lovely name. Nigel is a combination of the parents name, Nikki and Gelo. Photo from Nikki Tuanqui’s Facebook.